2023 © Nico Canon. All Rights Reserved. Terms and conditions | Privacy policy

Polarity teachings are great to rekindle the fire of attraction yet they will confuse you when it comes to navigating conflict..

October 6, 2023


Non violent communication (and the like) are great for navigating conflict with kindness yet they will dry up your relationship of all aliveness and raw expression if overdone..

Spiritual teachings are great to empower you and nourish personal responsibility yet they will easily turn into by-passing, coping mechanisms when it comes to addressing relational issues..

Strong boundaries, commitments and vows are great to create a safe and reliable structure yet too much rigidity and inflexibility is bound to make things break.

Understand that not only because you have a hammer at hand every problem is a nail.

The same goes for the teachers you follow:

Understand the tool they provide yet don’t reduce your romantic relationships to an over-simplified philosophy.

Relationships are living, evolving entities.

Pockets of life and mystery not meant to be solved, yet aching to be experienced.

Amplified bubbles of emotion, sensation, beauty and pain that serve as great catalyst for spiritual transformation..

And as such, every time you try to put a box of labels and patterns around it, you will either suffocate it or watch it explode and prove your silly mental constructs wrong.

Learn all you can and then put it aside, for love is an art -not a science.

Nicolas Canon
Nico Canon is an artist, writer and dating coach. His art and writing are about reclaiming our right to be seduced by our lives and relationships. Through his work he explores the links between people and their deepest and rawest desires, opening up a bridge of self-expression and acceptance.

Value. Straight
in your inbox.

Sign up for my email list to receive exclusive
tips, updates, inspiration, and content.
Spam free. Unsubscribe anytime.