Every time you look at your partner and you feel “you deserve better” (or think you could/should be able to do better)You ignore all the ways in which he/she is a perfect fit for your own unconscious patterns of relating..

And until you heal those, you are destined to find yourself in the exact same spot.

With the exact same doubts,

with all your future partners.

You will live the same story with different characters until you realize that it’s you (the author) who needs to write a new narrative.

Want a plot twist?

Focus on yourself.