A boy always asks himself “What’s in it for me?”
A Man states: I’m in it, for THEM, for US.
A boy is driven by compulsions and desires.
A Man is driven by virtues and values.
A boy lies to get what he wants,
A Man defends TRUTH, even at the cost of losing it all.
A boy avoids commitments and responsibilities to feel “Free”
A Man finds FREEDOM through commitment and being responsible.
A boy cares about what others think of him
A Man deeply cares about others.
A boy is constantly trying to fill an empty void within themselves (through sex, substances and success)
A Man has an overflowing cup and is constantly seeking to be of service
A boy sees any feedback as criticism, due to his fragile ego.
A Man does not derive his self-worth from what anyone thinks about him – therefore he’s open to growth and listening to others.
A boy gets into a relationship from a space of wanting to get and receive
A Man gets into it from a place of sharing and co-creating.
A boy has a life that has become dull due to excess porn, alcohol, weed, casual sex, videogames, Netflix and social media..
A Man leads a life full of meaning, aligned work, conscious hobbies and constant learning.
A boy feels the world owes him
A Man own his world.
A boy read this post and got triggered,
A Man nodded in recognition.
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