Stop trying to “earn” love

Stop trying to “earn” love

(Having moved on my own from Colombia to Canada at 16, I was unaware that there were women who provided for younger men. It was often the older men who would “bless” the younger women back home blessed) So here’s the story: I was out at a party with...
Women: Listen to HOW he does things – not what he does.

Women: Listen to HOW he does things – not what he does.

And most definitely NOT what he says. You can ALWAYS weight a man’s character by the quality of his relationship to structure. This is why you may find yourself especially irritated when a man lies, is late or misrepresents the truth to you. Not because he said...
How to know if your partner is open to be led?

How to know if your partner is open to be led?

Years ago a girl I was interested in dating came to Colombia to visit. During our first week together I invited her on a night out to dance salsa During that dance I discovered everything I needed to, to understand that we were not a good match for each other. Let me...
How to believe in yourself

How to believe in yourself

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me…”  This is the most common regret men have on their deathbed (according to thousands of surveyed deaths). But that’s just the adorned version of...
Why are men afraid of commitment?

Why are men afraid of commitment?

Men are not scared of commitment. They are scared of entrapment, The fastest way for a man to close down, disconnect and distance himself from a relationship is to ensure he feels trapped within it. Transitioning from soul-mates into cell-mates. If you look throughout...
How to have healthy relationships 101

How to have healthy relationships 101

Your job in a relationship should NEVER be to change your partner… However, you have the power to create an atmosphere within which change is close to inevitable. So how do we do that? How do we create a space where our partner embraces and takes responsibility...

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