Women: Listen to HOW he does things – not what he does.
And most definitely NOT what he says. You can ALWAYS weight a man's character by the quality of his relationship to structure. This is why you may find yourself especially irritated when a man lies, is late or misrepresents the truth to you. Not because he said he'd...
How to attract a high value masculine man?
Women An ongoing obsession with the way you look (your clothes, your make up, your weight), the work that you do and how you are perceived in social media (carefully polishing every post and picture) is often a distraction from paying attention to a much deeper...
This is why you are stuck – you may be lacking one of the following:
📍A mission you care for (a purpose) 🗺A reliable map towards that treasure (a path) 🔥A reason that makes it all worth it (pressure or a promise) Let me explain in a bit more depth... ⚜️Purpose: Imagine you are driving your car and suddenly your eyes were...
Leadership is a dance – for to lead, there must be a follower.
Therefore it is NOT merely a masculine quality. It is an existential one (like gravity) To lead consciously means that there is harmony between the masculine and the feminine. The masculine creates structure and direction while the feminine provides flow, feedback and...
How to know if your partner is open to be led?
Years ago a girl I was interested in dating came to Colombia to visit. During our first week together I invited her on a night out to dance salsa During that dance I discovered everything I needed to, to understand that we were not a good match for each other. Let me...
How to believe in yourself?
"I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.." This is the most common regret men have on their deathbed (according to thousands of surveyed deaths.) But that's just the adorned version of the truth... What they...
Why are men afraid of commitment?
Men are not scared of commitment. They are scared of entrapment. The fastest way for a man to close down, disconnect and distance himself from a relationship is to ensure he feels trapped within it. Transitioning from soul-mates into cell-mates If you look...
When you flow, there’s no need to force
Most of the time a man feels stuck is NOT because he is incompetent. In fact, it tends to be because he is confused and lacks clarity. If you were driving around and suddenly your eyes were blindfolded, what's the first thing you would do? You'd push the brakes...
How to have healthy relationships 101
Your job in a relationship should NEVER be to change your partner.. however, you have the power to create an atmosphere within which that change is close to inevitable. So how do we do that? How do we create a space where our partner embraces and takes responsibility...
Why do people procrastinate?
Let's start with understanding the word itself: Pro - Towards/Forward Crastinus - Tomorrow Procrastination therefore means to be in pro of tomorrow (which makes it the close cousin of Regret) Regret is to wish you acted differently in the past Procrastination is to...
Personal (awkward) Story and the importance of Intuition.
Back in the day, I did many silly things to try and get a girlfriend About 13 years ago, I was a hormone-charged AND socially awkward teenager wanting to understand women. So I was the perfect prey for the PUA industry (pick up 'artists') scams If you are unfamiliar...
This moment that you are living is not a tragedy, it is a blessing
Many years ago I used to do laundry, clean floors and toilets for a living. I did not want to work for someone else so I rented two condos and put them on airbnb and managed them. Which meant changing bedding, cleaning kitchens, toilets and floors on an ongoing basis....
