How to learn to receive love?
A few weeks ago I hurt my middle-upper back. The pain was not very heavy, however it was enough for me to feel concerned so I decided to get it treated right away - which ended up in one of the most beautiful lessons I've had recently. I went to my yoga instructor and...
Love in essence is unconditional, but relationships are NOT
Human relationships are conditional by their very nature. Period. Anyone who tries to force upon you the concept of “unconditional love” is trying to manipulate you. What they are REALLY trying to say is this: I want a relationship without expectations I want a...
Private Ayahuasca Ceremonies
Last month one of the Shamans that works with us held a private ceremony for the CEO of an International Bank. He wanted privacy for obvious reasons. He's a very well known and influential man so his career (and how his peers perceive him) could be negatively impacted...
Stop trying to “earn” love
(Having moved on my own from Colombia to Canada at 16, I was unaware that there were women who provided for younger men. It was often the older men who would "bless" the younger women back home blessed) So here's the story: I was out at a party with friends and I met...
Women: Listen to HOW he does things – not what he does.
And most definitely NOT what he says. You can ALWAYS weight a man's character by the quality of his relationship to structure. This is why you may find yourself especially irritated when a man lies, is late or misrepresents the truth to you. Not because he said he'd...
How to stop “being stuck”
A mission you care for (a purpose) 📍 A reliable map towards that treasure (a path) 🗺 A reason that makes it all worth it (pressure or a promise) 🔥 Let me explain in a bit more depth... ⚜️ Purpose: Imagine you are driving your car and suddenly your eyes were...
Leadership is a dance – to lead, there must be a follower.
Therefore it is NOT merely a masculine quality. It is an existential one (like gravity) To lead consciously means that there is harmony between the masculine and the feminine. The masculine creates structure and direction while the feminine provides flow, feedback and...
How to know if your partner is open to be led?
Years ago a girl I was interested in dating came to Colombia to visit. During our first week together I invited her on a night out to dance salsa During that dance I discovered everything I needed to, to understand that we were not a good match for each other. Let me...
How to believe in yourself
"I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me..." This is the most common regret men have on their deathbed (according to thousands of surveyed deaths). But that's just the adorned version of the truth... What they...
Why are men afraid of commitment?
Men are not scared of commitment. They are scared of entrapment, The fastest way for a man to close down, disconnect and distance himself from a relationship is to ensure he feels trapped within it. Transitioning from soul-mates into cell-mates. If you look throughout...
When you flow, there’s no need to force
Most of the time a man feels stuck is NOT because he is incompetent.In fact, it tends to be because he is confused and lacks clarity. If you were driving around and suddenly your eyes were blindfolded, what's the first thing you would do? You'd push the brakes...
How to have healthy relationships 101
Your job in a relationship should NEVER be to change your partner... However, you have the power to create an atmosphere within which change is close to inevitable. So how do we do that? How do we create a space where our partner embraces and takes responsibility for...
