“Should I shift careers and go ALL-IN into my heart’s calling?”

“Should I leave my relationship or stay and try to make it work?”

“Should I stay where I live or travel/move abroad?”

People’s lives are wasted in the 3 questions above.

They die old, either lonely or in a mediocre, resentment-fuelled relationship.

Jaded about not having taken the risks they wanted to with a forever “what if!” carved in their foreheads.

Regretting all the years wasted in indecisiveness, feeling stuck and in a perpetual state of “something big’s about to come”

But nothing happened.

Not because it wasn’t possible, but because they didn’t know what they wanted.

Put a gun to someone’s head and tell them what it would take for them not to get a bullet and you’ll see the laziest, least motivated of persons surprise themselves at how resourceful and energized they are.

That is the power of knowing exactly what you want and the next steps you need to take to move closer to that.

On the other hand, I know plenty of super capable, gifted people wasting their time away scrolling through social media, traveling for comfort and in uninspiring relationships..

Endlessly marinating in a sea of mediocre.

Just because they’re not clear.

And here’s the tricky thing:

You cannot think your way into a solution..

In the same way you cannot “Think outside the box” because THINKING IS THE BOX!

Your mind will keep you enslaved to what’s known, predictable and safe before you gather the courage to take a leap of faith.

However, you are not your mind.

And your intelligence goes way deeper than your thought process.

How to access it, so that our decisions can come from a deep, grounded, reliable place, that’s the question!