– In what ways am I contributing to the deterioration (or absence) of a healthy, passionate and loving relationship?
– Have I forgiven all my previous partners?
– Have I made peace in my heart with both of my parents?
– What stupid habits sabotage my mental, emotional & physical health?
– What stupid friendships pull me back in loops of mediocrity, avoidance and isolation?
– What is ONE thing I could commit to doing for the next 4 weeks that would make me a much better partner (or a more attractive prospect)?
– Do I have something to hide?
– Do I feel I have something to prove?
– Do I like whom I see in the mirror? if not, why not?
Explore and report back.