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ASKNICO: The woman I love has a boyfriend

ASKNICO: The woman I love has a boyfriend

"Hi Nicolas! Thank you for opening up this space for questions. I need some advice. I had seen this girl on a friend's Facebook photos couple of times and always felt drawn to her and found her very attractive. About a month ago I was hanging out with my friend and...

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5) Everything is available to you. At all times.

5) Everything is available to you. At all times.

This is the final and most recent lesson I have come across in my first 25 laps around the sun: Everything is available to me, at all times. What do I mean by this? I have noticed that regardless of how good or bad our current situation may seem, we always have access...

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#3 – The Power of Community

#3 – The Power of Community

If you want to go FAST go alone. If you want to go FAR go together. The third biggest insight I've had over the years is directly related to the importance of community. Having the right support network is the defining factor to how fast you bounce back from any lows...

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#2 – Morality is wrong & Normal is an Illusion

#2 – Morality is wrong & Normal is an Illusion

What is normal to the spider is hell to the fly The second biggest understanding that I've come to is that there is no such thing as 'normal' or 'natural'. There isn't one rule to measure everything and therefore the world cannot be objectively analyzed as a series of...

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The First Step

The First Step

It has always surprised me how fast time seems to go by every year, and how the older we get the faster it goes. I remember as a kid, having to wait couple of weeks to go on vacations seemed like an eternity, waiting for the weekend to hang out with friends like a...

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Bringing Sexy Jesus Back

Bringing Sexy Jesus Back

This post is not meant to mock those who believe in Jesus, but rather, to bring back his teachings in a relevant way. If there was a way in which Jesus loved, this would have been it. During the past two years I have been traveling and coaching with the Ars Amorata...

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A Rant About Men…

A Rant About Men…

I've heard countless times women complaining, saying that there aren't real men out there, just a bunch of insecure sissies. The worst thing is that they are right! There is a scarcity of real men, all we have left is a bunch of boys hoping for a nicer life, a...

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The Number One Dream Killer

The Number One Dream Killer

This is a very personal story. Last year in Colombia I had the chance to visit my godmother. Finding by surprise at her place one of the first "art projects" I ever did back in high school (that I had gifted her). We were supposed to develop and present any art...

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What do you want your life to look like?

What do you want your life to look like?

Most of us live as if we were never going to die. Most of us love as if tomorrow was a given. We end up going through the days, completely numb and unaware. "Not today" we say to ourselves, beauty can wait. And we die, with all our dreams, passions and adventures...

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IS YOUR TEXT THAT IMPORTANT?

IS YOUR TEXT THAT IMPORTANT?

It's sad... very very sad. We live in the most interconnected world that has ever existed, yet connection is the one thing we crave and lack the most. We forgot what it means to look up and smile to strangers, to befriend those we see day after day around us, to say...

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Dear Future Lover,

Dear Future Lover,

I can't wait to meet you. And I'm not ready for you. There are some things that I need to do first. And actively looking for you is distracting me from the little bit of work I still need to do in my own personal kingdom to prepare for your arrival. I have a few more...

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